Proper Preparations
I arose this morning at 5:00 in order to go slay some fish. It’s been a wet and cold week down on the Texas coastline but today was the day. The wind had dropped to near zero. The temperature was up...
View Article“We’re Burnin’ Daylight”
“Rise and Shine,” my Mom used to say these words in her lilting manner, just about every morning. Dad would often follow up with a John Wayne quote from the movie, The Cowboys, with his favorite...
View ArticleTop 5 Ways to Reclaim a Sexual Marriage
Many men are lost and struggling in their marriages. They want the spark back in their relationship. There is a sense of desperation that begins to fester. These men want a better situation than...
View ArticleMen are Hungry
I was talking with a friend of mine, Hunter Drew, of The Family Alpha. Hunter has been writing for two years now. He reported back that his site just hit 1,000,000 views. That’s impressive as heck....
View ArticleD/s is not BDSM
One of the biggest hurdles a couple faces when exploring the ideas of adopting a formal Dominant/submissive lifestyle is the stigma surrounding BDSM. These four letters freak many people out. These...
View ArticleHeavy is the Head that Wears the Crown.
In case there was ever any doubt… For those of you who missed my last email, I spoke at this past weekend’s 21 Convention: Patriarch Edition. This was the first event of its kind anywhere that I...
View ArticleThe Real World
What is lacking in our real world that makes the digital world so attractive? There is nothing like having the sum of all human knowledge just a few thumb presses away. Quickly tapping the phone...
View ArticleThe Old Cedar Chest
Somewhere along our path, Curveycat and I ended up with this old cedar chest. It has battle scars everywhere. The hardware has a few replacement screws. Some of the straps are bent but none are...
View ArticleFault Lies
One of the realities in embracing a formal D/s role in your home, it forces an honesty onto both partners. This can be a welcomed relief and a pained admission. Honesty is one of the basic stones that...
View ArticleThe Self Aware Man
Most of us muddle along in life. We go to our jobs. We try to manage our finances with a look to future retirement. We work to raise our kids to be respectful, functional cogs in the machine, just as...
View ArticleThe Curse of Invisibility
Some think of Invisibility as a fictional super-power from the comic books of our youth. We might think it an incredible gift. The reality is, it’s a curse for many people who experience it daily....
View ArticleThe Chief Listens…
I recently attended a 5 day camping trip into the panhandle of Florida. The men there were all in the Fraternity of Excellence. I was assigned the title of Chief early on with this group. Not being a...
View ArticleThe Death of “Bro Science”
This might come off as some sort of brag but it’s a story of persistence and fighting well established beliefs that have held me back over the years. The Weight Struggle I’ve struggled with my weight...
View ArticleStay Grounded
That’s what the the coffee mug proclaimed. I had finished my cup of coffee, rinsed the cup and opened the dishwasher. There I found one of my good Japanese kitchen knives. A tiny bit of rust was...
View ArticleBe the Oak
I want to share a perspective. One of the biggest things we all can do is maintain our frame. All those around you will feed off your unwavering confidence. The stock market is what it is....
View ArticleThat Which is Important
Nothing like a Pandemic to make one pause and take personal inventory. The world is in a lockdown of sorts. People here and there appear to be losing their minds. Employers laying people off. Kids...
View ArticleThe Next Hero Generation
There is an old verse: Good Times Create Weak Men, Weak Mean Create Hard Times, Hard Times Create Strong Men, and Strong Men Create Good Times. In January, my girl wrote on the small chalkboard in our...
View ArticleThat Which Hasn’t Been Said
We blog our ideas and thoughts and wonder if any of it really is unique. Am I guilty of plagiarizing something I heard years ago and simply forgot? The Curse of Time is one such topic. There really...
View ArticleOn the Sanctity of Marriage
There is a line in most wedding vows, richer/poorer/sickness/health for a reason. It’s a reminder that things change over time. Events shape a man and woman’s relationship. Those events can be a...
View ArticleAll Women Are Like That
When a man finally takes the Red Pill and examines his relationships with women, his path can take a lot of interesting turns. Anger, resentment, denial, etc. This is like Kubler-Ross’ Five Stages of...
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